Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Abstinence Yesterday, Protection Today
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How should we categorize teen pregnancy, as the lack of fear for God or the lack of education? In the society we live in today, there is a wide divide in personal stance of the older and the newer generation when it comes to this particular subject. How do we compromise with the growing culture of openness in sexuality and the instilled ‘shush’ attitude of the Asian clan?

In 2005, our government proudly announced that they have agreed to implement sex education in the school’s syllabus in January 2006. However, until today, in the year 2008, we have yet to see any progress in this matter. We were supposed to be among the first Muslim countries to implement the subject in our system. What is it that is holding us back from moving forward?

As preparation, surveys of all sorts were conducted in our community; from primary school children to working adults. In my opinion, if a survey was conducted every 5 years, the results will vary because of the changing generations. What was not known in the past is common knowledge today. For example, the all-time favourite question, “Where did babies come from?” Kids know their parents had something to do with it. No story of the stork delivering the baby to a home will sell, even among kindergarten children.



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In this information-rich society, we can no longer fool ourselves by not acknowledging the change in believes and practices. One of the main reasons sex education was initially considered was the worry of AIDS becoming an epidemic in the world. However, our focus here is teen pregnancy, an increasing medical concern. In Malaysia, the Organisation for Economics Co-operation and Development reported in 2007 that the percentage of teen pregnancy has and will reduce in the years to come. This is also true for the Western countries.

Surprised? How is it that this is possible when the Population Reference Bureau reported that more teens are sexually active today than 10 years ago. And they claim that this number will keep increasing in the years to come. One does not have to pull their hair out to figure out the answer. EDUCATION.

The preaching of abstinence is slowly being replaced by talks of safe sex, using contraceptives and fidelity. Even though sex education is yet to be in the Malaysian education system, teenagers and youths throughout the country are in a world where knowledge is just a mouse click away. It is no surprise if a boy who looks like he just attained puberty walks into 7-11 to purchase condoms. The reason he needs it in the first place maybe of concern to some but to others, the concern is one step further. Does he know how to use it?
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The existence of protections may be common knowledge but steps of using it and the dangers or possible inefficiencies of an IUD or condom may not be known to most. This is why sex education is important and is in fact vital in today’s society. Youths should know exactly what are the possibilities of being sexually active and the responsibilities of getting pregnant for both the male and the female counterpart.



This is exactly why sex education is necessary. Education is the key to solving problems in the society such as sexually transmitted diseases and teen pregnancy. To ensure the correct information is being obtained by youngsters, it ought to be made available by reliable and credible sources and where better than schools.

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Tuesday, August 26, 2008

Movie Review: Juno

Having a baby should be a wonderful experience, right? You meet the right guy, get married and then have a baby. However, it wouldn’t be a bed of roses if you were to get pregnant at the mere age of 16, unmarried, and still in high school. It would be truly tough to go through with it – bearing the heavy responsibility and also enduring the humiliation.

Anyway, in the movie “Juno”, Juno MacGuff is 16 and a junior in high school. She sleeps with her boyfriend, Paulie, and I guess they forgot to use a condom. Therefore, she got pregnant. Oh, what to do, what to do? Tough decisions to make. To keep the baby or to abort it, those are the questions.

She certainly can’t keep the baby and take care of it. She also almost wanted to abort the baby but gave up on the idea. Later, she and her friend, Leah, looked through advertisements in the Pennysaver where people were interested in adopting children. Finally, they found the perfect couple who could be the baby’s new parents.

Juno tells her family that she’s pregnant and they’re absurdly calm about it all. Juno’s father also follows her to meet the potential parents, Mark and Vanessa. Mark and Vanessa seem like nice people although I felt Vanessa’s kind of like an uptight person. Mark’s more laidback and he’s friendlier with Juno. Both of them are into music and guitars so they get along well.

I feel that Juno’s really lucky because she has a supportive father and stepmother and best friend. However, her boyfriend, Paulie did not do much except hang around, waiting for Juno to find him. He’s supposedly in love with her. But then, it seems that she has decided that they stay away from each other and has even suggested that he go to prom with another girl. She then gets upset when he does ask the other girl out!

Do I feel that this is a good movie or a bad one? Well, it all depends. It could be a good movie for those who are already pregnant. Yeah, abortion is a sin. Nobody should ever go for it but those without a choice are forced to do it. If not, they won’t be capable of taking care of their own kid. What’s worse is that they might even just dump their baby somewhere. So, this movie could help pregnant teens make the right choices.

On the other hand, it doesn’t mean that you should get pregnant when you’re just not ready for it. If you’re still in school, not financially secured, no guarantee that your guy will always be by your side to support you, then the best thing to do is to just avoid having intercourse.

For Juno, yes, she made a mistake with serious consequences and she had to deal with it by herself. She had to face the embarrassment in school as the girl with the big belly. She’s still as sarcastic as ever and speaks her mind when she wants. Juno’s a strong girl and she got a happy ending. Her baby’s got a happy home. Problem solved.

It’s only a movie and we shouldn’t think that things will be easy when one gets pregnant at a ridiculously young age. Thus, make the right choices and don’t be easily influenced. Think of the consequences. Are you willing to kill an unborn child? Or are you brave enough to be the only pregnant kid in school? What will your parents say? Is your boyfriend worth it? Does he care for you? Yup, it’s not that easy, right?

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